No More Mr. Nice Guy
I just started listening to No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover and I immediately realized that I am undeniably a "nice guy." Some things of note right off the bat: I have issues with love, sex and relationships as well as my potential, actualization and being fulfilled. I mask my intentions to manipulate others while still trying to be liked. I give more than I receive because I believe that if I don't give, people won't want me around. I have a skewed paradigm that has lead me to believe that being nice and putting others before myself would end up leaving me fulfilled and happy. I will need to radically change the way that I think and behave to break the "nice guy" paradigm. I am not the first nor the last "nice guy" and I find myself trying to be unique as a man. I do things that I think are the right thing to do rather than what makes me feel good. I use logic instead of emotion in the most important and emotional decisions of my life. ...